I have to apologize up front, as I may offend some people, especially the ladies.
I was on the public transport recently. I was bored. Then my mind says, lets play a game. But what game? Suddenly an idea hits me......
It is a simple game. I have to be honest with myself. After all, I am the only one playing and knowing that I am playing the game!
As the place is crowded with so many people. The objective of the game is to find a lady, by her looks, dressing and posture, that I think I would like to be my life partner!
So I started looking and evaluating the ladies. 1st one, failed. 2nd, failed. It went on and on. I think it was the 30th lady, saw one that I felt might make a good life partner.
What amaze and alarm me was that, I think I vetted thru at least 200 ladies, and only about 3 or 4 of the ladies falls into the category that might be my life partner! That is only about 2 percent.....
I started to evaluate myself. Am I so picky? Or my standard too high? Or the samples on that day was not my "taste"?
Whatever it was. That day I learned:
a) Even if I think that lady is suitable for me.... on her side, it might not be.
b) The first impression of attraction (which can be fatal) between me and all those strangers, the percentage is too small.
c) There are so many beautiful, sweet, sexy and well dressed ladies, however only a handful fall into the category "my type".
My conclusion is that if I were to look for a life partner, base on first impression and attraction, at a public area, the chances is nearly zero.
Anybody game to play this game?
Note: Yes I am aware, that I am not a suitable life partner candidate for most women.....