Warning : Please skip reading this article as it may not be suitable for you. If you keep on reading, you are at your own risk.
Disclaimer: This is my personal view and nobody shall be liable for whatever is written here.
Women has always been delicate. Like fine cloth, the more expensive the cloth is the more do's and dont's should apply. So what I am writing here is base on stories I personally heard, and my own experience. In other words it is from experience, not from formal lab testing or studies done by the relevant authority on this subject.
Lets focus on how to help a women achieve orgasm. I am trying to make it simple and I am breaking it into these steps:
1) The place.
Make sure it is something where both of you are comfortable. Take note of her dislike and like on what kind of place she prefers. Match with yours, then you make your choice. For married couples, the bedroom should be the preference. Other areas are game too, living room, kitchen or even the bathroom depending on your preference and sense of adventure. For those that have limited resources, a cosy hotel room might be the choice. But do not limit yourself, in an open field, or a beach will be fine too, as long both of you are comfortable......
Set the ambience right. Music both of you enjoy. Much better if the music has a calming effect on her. Scents that is not too strong. Dim lighting and maybe lighting from candles.
2) The time.
Choose a time that both of you are not in a rush. Make sure nobody will suddenly pop in. Or when the kids are still awake. Or being raid by the religious department....... quank quank quank....
3) Your hygiene.
Both of you take a shower, better if it is together. Wear clothes that is comfortable and not too cumbersome to disrobe later. Put on some perfume that she loves. Make sure those pubic hairs or other hairy areas of your body are trim neatly or even shaved off depending on her preference.
4) F&B.
A candle light dinner will be good to get into a romantic mood, but do not eat or drink too much. You do not want to end in the loo every now and then, and avoid farting ok..... especially in her presence!
5) The process in general. You may make changes as these are only guides:
a) Have light conversation. On topics that she is well verse with.
b) Caress her gently. This includes kissing. Different women have different parts they love to be caressed. Caressing is an art, the more you do it, the more you will learn. So is kissing. From the gentle subtle kiss to the hard and rough french kissing. Take your time to explore her body. Take note the effects that it gives her, this is for your future reference. Do have light conversation, especially complementing on her looks or figure. If you have nothing to compliment, shut up!
c) Be responsive. Making love is not a one way street. In your eagerness to please her, you fully focus on her only. You should let her have her fun on you too.
d) Gently and slowly do get both of you to undress. Yeah I know it is difficult, when both of you are hot and horny. Do it in stages. Take off one by one, and lingers on the underwear as long as possible.
e) Now to make her cum(orgasm). Try to make her cum first. IF YOU CAN MAKE HER CUM TOGETHER WITH YOU, THAT WILL BE THE PREFERENCE!
......... To be continued.
5 comments:
hahahhahahaha...isn't trying for an orgasm very tedious Dade Ghost?
but i thought men never listen.
NEVER.
:-P
KH I would say it is like riding a superbike.... once the man get the hang of it... he will have a better ride... and the superbike will be taken care off very deligently.....
Freak, generalising it u r right. As most men do listen.. but to themself only. So the new generation of men, are beginning to learn and listen to their partners.....
a fact that men shud acknowledge:
women cant cum as easily as them men.
so pls stop asking and try harder!
teehee :p
Tiena..... I share the same experience and thoughts as u r... That is why I am writing this post. However, I still have to find the time to finish it!
Maybe there are some women out there that can give some tips to help the men help the women achieve orgasm?? Of course I am sure the men will try HARDER!
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